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What Did You Say? (My Husband Thinks I Need a Hearing Test)

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original post: 02/02/2019
updated: 11/1/2020

Turn down the TV!

My husband tells me fairly often that I turn the volume up too high when I watch TV. He also complains I speak too loudly on the phone. I noticed myself that it is more difficult lately to hear conversations in noisy restaurants with the people who sit right next to me. The truth is, at age 59, I do not hear as well as I did in the past. I really hate to admit that, even to myself.

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My hearing loss gradually snuck up on me

It wasn’t as though one day I realized I did not hear well. My hearing loss snuck up on me slowly over the last few years. I actually didn’t realize that I now hear fewer sounds until my husband forced me to have a conversation about it. I do know I frequently ask people to repeat their comments or questions nowadays, and I know that can irritate others. I used to get annoyed with people who asked me to repeat myself, which I feel badly about now.  I hope people have more patience with me than I had for others as I continue to age.

Have you had a hearing test?

According to the website, approximately 36 million Americans have significant hearing loss, but never had a hearing test. Could one of them be you?

Many people don’t seek help for their hearing loss. Some, like me, are in denial. Others worry about how hearing aids look and what people may think. People who use hearing aids tell me the technology is much improved and some devices are so small they are barely noticeable.

When should you have your hearing evaluated?

How do you know when it’s time to seek a hearing evaluation? For me, the first step was to acknowledge I might have a problem. As I watched my parents age, I know that untreated hearing loss can lead to a decline in quality of life, social isolation, problems on the job, and frequent embarrassment. I know these facts intellectually, but emotionally, it is difficult to admit I needed help. 

Once I accepted I may have a problem, I made the decision to take a test. My family doctor suggested I start with a basic screening rather than to go first to an audiologist. AARP recommends a scientifically validated hearing screen test called the National Hearing Test (NHT) as a more convenient way to proceed initially.  This telephone-administered screening is an independent test developed with funding from the National Institutes of Health (NIH).  AARP offers their members the opportunity to take this test once/year for free. The test, which takes about 4 minutes per ear, costs only $8.00 for those who are not AARP members. The NHT very effectively detects the most common forms of hearing loss, those that are age-related and those that result from exposure to loud noises. Other less common types of hearing problems require a different approach. The National Hearing Test (NHT) helps you decide whether to seek a full hearing evaluation. However, even if you pass this test, if concerned about your hearing you may still want to see an audiologist for further assessment.

Age-related hearing loss

It turns out I have a mild age-related hearing loss. I learned recently the technical term for this condition is presbycusis. I ignored the signs for years simply because I didn’t want to have a hearing problem; it made me feel old. I am now in a place where I admit my hearing is less sensitive now than when I was younger, and acknowledge it is a normal part of aging. I also feel better about growing older in general. It’s certainly better than the alternative.


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