For years, controversy swirled around the diagnosis of “fibromyalgia”. Doctors thought it wasn’t a real condition. Many viewed it as a dumping ground for drug-seeking patients with unexplained pain including numbness, tingling and burning, severe fatigue, tender points throughout the body, and sleep issues. Thankfully, today more and more neurologists acknowledge that fibromyalgia is a real disorder with chronic pain.
Is Fibromyalgia Real?
Yes, fibromyalgia is definitely real. The long-standing skepticism is underserved. In fact, it is a fairly common syndrome in the general population with a prevalence estimated at 3-6% worldwide according to the National Fibromyalgia Association. It’s seen most often in women, but sometimes doctors see fibromyalgia in men and children. In addition to unexplained pain, fatigue, body aches and sleep issues, some with fibromyalgia experience cognitive difficulties, often called “fibro fog”, headaches, and irritable bowel syndrome.
This condition, characterized by a collection of related symptoms without an identifiable cause, was a puzzle for doctors for a long time. While patients complain of musculoskeletal pain, they typically show no abnormalities in their musculoskeletal system. The problem instead appears to lie within the pain processing pathways of the central nervous system (CNS). Fibromyalgia is easily confused with other conditions such as rheumatoid arthritis and lupus.
What Causes Fibromyalgia?
Fibromyalgia doesn’t have a clear and well-understood underlying cause, which is the reason for the controversy and skepticism in the medical community. Some experts believe it involves a combination of genetic, environmental, and psychological factors. Diagnosis of fibromyalgia is typically based on a combination of clinical symptoms and by ruling out other possible medical conditions.
Though the exact cause remains uncertain, individuals who suffer from fibromyalgia experience very real and frequently debilitating symptoms. Treatment approaches often involve a combination of medications, lifestyle changes, and physical therapy. Sometimes physicians recommend psychological interventions to manage the pain and improve overall quality of life.
One Patient’s Personal Journey with Fibromyalgia
My interest in fibromyalgia is somewhat personal. I know more than a few individuals who suffer from this condition and wanted to understand it better. One is a dear friend, Trisha Lehrman, who agreed to answer some questions in order to help others with fibromyalgia. Below are my questions, along with her answers.
How long have you had fibromyalgia?
I first remember experiencing symptoms during college but had no idea where the body aches came from. Usually, the aches followed nights when I had a restless night or didn’t get enough sleep. In fact, it was only years later that I made the connection between the pain I felt at that time and the lack of good-quality sleep. I first heard of Fibromyalgia when in my mid 20’s but at that time, my rheumatologist, one of the most well-respected in Dallas, tried to convince me the pain was all in my head. He gave little credence to the idea of Fibromyalgia as a real thing. Keep in mind that was back in the late ’70s or early ’80s. Luckily, a lot changed since then.
What are your symptoms?
For me, the major symptom is a continuous throbbing aching pain. It is not a function of movement but is ever-present even when sitting or lying down. It is my upper body that is always the most severely impacted. The pain primarily occurs in my arms, but my legs are affected at times as well. In addition, my neck and shoulder muscles tend to overreact and hold onto tension unnecessarily. When that happens, it becomes very difficult to get those muscles to release the tension which leads to pain in those areas too. The pain tends to disrupt my sleep and it is only when I get an abundance of deep good quality sleep that I am able to resolve the flare-ups. Not getting enough sleep or good quality sleep is the one thing that ALWAYS causes my fibromyalgia to flare up or get worse if it is active at that time. So, the pain and the disrupted sleep become a vicious cycle that is difficult to interrupt.
What symptoms originally took you to the doctor and how long did it take to correctly diagnose?
I went to several doctors when in my 20s and 30s looking for an explanation for my chronic pain and fatigue. No one could identify a cause or give me a diagnosis. They were able to tell me what it wasn’t, but not what it was. By this time, I had 2 young children and tried to adapt the best I could. For example, I didn’t have the strength to lift up my son and couldn’t tolerate the pain caused by putting him in the grocery cart or on the diaper table. I looked for friendly looking strangers in the grocery store to assist me to put him in the cart. At home, I set up a step stool for him to climb directly onto the diaper changing table by himself.
I did some reading and eventually diagnosed myself. I also came to realize that the quality and amount of sleep I got was definitely a major determiner of how much pain I had. It wasn’t until 2006 that I finally found a physician who specialized in Fibromyalgia and Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Thankfully, he diagnosed me correctly and I started treatment.
How often does it flare up?
It used to flare up much more often than it does now. I think that the stress and demands of raising my children and developing my career when younger resulted in inadequate sleep which led to frequent flare-ups. After going through my most intensive period of treatment (2006-2009), I began to see improvement, little by little. When placed on hormone replacement therapy (HRT) during menopause, my flare-ups became fewer and less intense. Now that I can no longer be on HRT due to a breast cancer diagnosis a few years back, I now have more frequent flare-ups. The good news is that I can usually get things under control by making a point to get more sleep.
How do you treat your Fibromyalgia?
The treatments I received through the practice specializing in fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue included numerous regimens to treat viruses and infections discovered through extensive blood work. They encouraged me to take Tylenol PM to help with my sleep. Eventually, I was prescribed Trazadone as a sleep aid.
In addition, my doctor diagnosed hypothyroidism and prescribed thyroid medication. A year later, he suspected I had an immune deficiency and referred me to an immunologist, who discovered I had Common Variable Immune Deficiency. Treatment for this condition requires a monthly infusion of IGG (immunoglobulins), and I continue to get these infusions every month.
Several years ago, my doctor told me about a new medication that showed success with decreasing Fibromyalgia pain. I agreed to try it. It is called Low Dose Naltrexone and is an “off label” use of this medication. I take it on a daily basis which I find helpful with the pain. In addition, staying active is critical for me in managing my symptoms. I do yoga which keeps my muscles stretched and flexible. Additionally, I walk regularly and take a senior exercise class several times weekly. Finally, I find that massage, by a massage therapist who understands Fibromyalgia, helps to interrupt that pain cycle when it gets out of control. There are times when I need massages every 2 weeks just to keep things “calmed down”, which was quite helpful during stressful periods.
How Do You Know Which Treatments Will Help Your Fibromyalgia?
No two cases are the same. It’s essential to work with a healthcare provider experienced in fibromyalgia to develop a personalized treatment plan tailored to your individual needs and symptoms. Fibromyalgia treatment typically involves trial and error to find what works best for each person, so patience is key. For many, mediation combined with natural remedies is the best answer.
Natural Treatments for Fibromyalgia
Below are some natural treatments people find helpful, depending on their situation. Keep in mind that what works best for one person might not work as well for another. Working closely with your healthcare providers and maintaining open communication about your symptoms and relief methods will enable you to find the best strategies for managing your fibromyalgia.
Meditation and mindfulness
Meditation and mindfulness work by helping to shift your focus from your pain and promote relaxation. In this way, you can lessen your perception of pain. Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) is one example of a program that combines mindfulness, meditation, and yoga which improves the overall quality of life for some fibromyalgia sufferers.
Sleep Hygiene
Proper sleep hygiene practices are crucial in managing fibromyalgia symptoms. It’s important to maintain a regular sleep schedule, create a restful environment, avoid caffeine and electronic devices before bedtime to try to enhance sleep quality. Natural supplements like melatonin may also help with sleep, potentially providing relief from symptoms.
Diet
Certain foods seem to exacerbate fibromyalgia symptoms in some people. Identifying and eliminating trigger foods may significantly improve symptoms. Common triggers include gluten, dairy, sugar, and additives such as MSG. A Registered Dietitian (R.D.) can help you create a meal plan to help manage your symptoms.
Natural Supplements
The research related to the effectiveness of supplements for relief from fibromyalgia symptoms is limited. However, certain natural supplements, such as magnesium, vitamin D and omega-3 fatty acids may be helpful. We recommend you consult with a healthcare provider before starting any supplement regimen as supplements can interact with medications and have side effects.
Physical Activity
Consistent, regular physical activity is essential to manage fibromyalgia symptoms. Though it may be tough to start an exercise program for those experiencing chronic pain, low-impact activities may be extremely beneficial. Activities such as walking, swimming, biking, yoga and tai chi are gentle on the body, yet potentially very effective in managing symptoms. Benefits of low-impact activities include pain reduction, better sleep and improved mood.
Fibromyalgia Can Affect Any of Us
It’s true. Fibromyalgia can affect any of us. No one is exempt. In fact, we are aware of a few celebrities that suffer with Fibromyalgia. For example, Lady Gaga famously canceled a European tour due to severe physical pain that impacted her ability to perform. She also opened up about her challenges with finding treatments and coping techniques for her symptoms in a Netflix documentary called “Gaga: Five Foot Two”.

If you have symptoms of Fibromyalgia, we urge you to find a physician who specializes in diagnosis and treatment to help you find relief. And if you have any words of wisdom to share with others, please leave your thoughts in the comment section below. We would love to hear from you.
Fibromyalgia FAQs
Fibromyalgia is a chronic disorder characterized by widespread musculoskeletal pain, fatigue, and tenderness in specific areas of the body. It is a complex condition, and many people have questions about it. Here are some frequently asked questions (FAQs) about fibromyalgia:
What is fibromyalgia?
Fibromyalgia is a chronic pain condition that causes widespread pain, tenderness, and fatigue throughout the body. It is considered a central sensitization syndrome, where the nervous system amplifies pain signals.
What are the common symptoms of fibromyalgia?
The most common symptoms include widespread musculoskeletal pain, fatigue, sleep disturbances, cognitive issues (fibro fog), headaches, irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), and sensitivity to touch, noise, or temperature changes.
What causes fibromyalgia?
The exact cause of fibromyalgia is not fully understood. It is believed to involve a combination of genetic, environmental, and neurological factors. Physical or emotional trauma, infections, and other stressors may trigger the onset of fibromyalgia symptoms in some individuals.
How is fibromyalgia diagnosed?
There is no specific test for fibromyalgia, so diagnosis is typically based on a thorough medical history, a physical examination, and ruling out other conditions with similar symptoms. The American College of Rheumatology has established criteria for diagnosing fibromyalgia, which includes widespread pain for at least three months and tenderness in specific tender points.
Is fibromyalgia a real medical condition?
Yes, fibromyalgia is recognized as a real medical condition by major medical organizations, including the World Health Organization (WHO) and the American Medical Association (AMA).
Can fibromyalgia be cured?
Currently, there is no cure for fibromyalgia. However, symptom management and lifestyle changes, including exercise, stress reduction, and certain medications, can help improve the quality of life for people with fibromyalgia.
Are there any specific medications for fibromyalgia?
While there is no cure, some medications may help manage fibromyalgia symptoms. These may include pain relievers, antidepressants, anticonvulsants, and muscle relaxants. It is essential to work with a healthcare provider to find the most suitable treatment plan.
Is fibromyalgia a form of arthritis?
No, fibromyalgia is not a form of arthritis. Unlike arthritis, which involves inflammation and damage to the joints, fibromyalgia primarily affects muscles and soft tissues.
Can exercise help with fibromyalgia?
Yes, exercise is often recommended as part of a comprehensive treatment plan for fibromyalgia. Low-impact exercises like walking, swimming, and yoga can help improve muscle strength, flexibility, and overall well-being.
Is fibromyalgia a lifelong condition?
In many cases, fibromyalgia is a chronic condition, and symptoms can persist for years. However, with proper management, many people experience periods of improvement or remission.